Opinions please about silk and real flowers at weddings?

Does anyone have silk flowers at their wedding? Do you think they look elegant? Or do you like real flowers?

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  1. Sarah M says:

    I have been in several weddings and am married myself… my oppinion and views are as follows.

    Pros of real flowers. smell pretty
    look pretty
    Cons they can die befor the event is even over
    they are not very strong
    very expencive
    Pros of silk beautiful
    can get out of season flowers
    very cost effective
    hardy
    easy to work with
    most people wont know they are silk
    cons
    there will be some people who don’t care for them

    this summer my sister got married and had real flowers they cost close to $4,000 for 7 bm 7gm and the fam. it was hot and our flowers were wilting befor we got down the aisle. The flowergirl stept on my flowers and broke many of them as i was helping her up the stairs so we just stuck pins in them to stay up.

    I had 4 bm and 4 gm and the fam for my wedding and i made all the flowers for ours with sliks and no one knew they were fake and they cost $60 and were breath taking.

    All in all it is your decision but if you are looking for a way to cut the budget this is the way.
    good luck

  2. abbie111 says:

    they would probably look just as nice but you cant beat the real thing. the only difference is that you can keep the silk ones forever to remind you of your special day. you can always chuck them away if it ends in divorce.

  3. charlie baltimore says:

    I personally think that real is more elegant.
    The smell of the flowers adds to it.

    My personal opinion is that silks are tacky.

  4. Billy Shat says:

    Depends on your budget. If you have the money to burn, go with real. If you’re on a budget, rent some silk ones. Personally, I never look at the flowers because I’m too busy looking at the bride. Also, think what else you could do with the money you waste on dead plants.

  5. gumnut says:

    of course most of the people who answer this question will say get real flowers but sometimes is difficult. like if you want frangipani’s in a teardrop bouquet you would have to go artificial because their stems are so short. i think artificial can look just as good.

    http://www.wedideas.com/

    you can have your silk ones scented so they smell the same as real

  6. ann says:

    I stood up in a wedding with silk flowers, I don’t think anybody even knew. It was fun to be able to keep the boquet. We did have real roses here and there, then replaced them later with silk roses.

  7. MarkMyWords says:

    My sister got married last October. Sadly, the grooms mother has leukemia and for reasons that i’m not sure about, she is unable to be around fresh cut flowers due to the treatment she is receiving. For this reason, all the tables had silk flowers on them. They looked fantastic…and it is something that can be kept forever as a memento of the big day.

  8. Meg says:

    I honestly love real flowers better. My cousin had all real flowers but because she is allergic to flowers her bouquet was silk flowers. The only thing with silk flowers is you have to go with the more expensive ones because they look more real. As long as they look real you will be fine.

  9. Shalot xx says:

    the real thing… you can always press them x

  10. Be B says:

    They both look nice.
    Silk flowers could be cheaper though. You can buy them off of ebay.

  11. loveyoumybabygirl says:

    real flowers,don’t use fake things at weddings,geomancer saying.

  12. Kristy says:

    I asked the same question and a majority of people said real. I am goingt o go real because I have looked at the silk and they just don’t compare!

  13. partyplanningbyabe says:

    the price difference between real vs silk is pennies, go with real get the full affect!

  14. Pat P says:

    silk flowers are just as good as real ones when there done right and not only that they last longer and remind you of your wonderful day, good luck with your wedding

  15. TOO SHORT says:

    silk will be very pretty and look so real

  16. maigen_obx says:

    I asked my husband this question before we got married and his response was – "It’s a real wedding why wouldn’t we have real flowers?"

  17. nataliexoxo says:

    i am using silk. from afloral.com
    they have the best prices and selections.
    i am getting my bouquet, a toss, 2 bms bouquets, head table arrangement and 10 centerpieces for under $200, ends up being 166 items, not all single stems mind you. (oh if you total is over $199 you get free shipping till 2-14)
    and i can give you a code for 5% off your order too- email me!

    the way i see it is as this….
    you spend 5 times that on fresh flowers and they wilt and die in a week or so. you throw a bouquet to waiting ladies in the crowd and it gets trashed.
    most ppl throw out their centerpieces.

    my flowers will last forever. i can display my bouqet at home in a bookcase with my special knick knacks.
    the centerpieces will be donated to the reception site for future brides to use if they wish- they can add or replace flowers from mine to customize theirs.

    the flowers i ordered are all sooo very real looking too. no cheapo silks in my bouquet!!!

  18. mr.oscar says:

    As a photographer I have seen that brides choose real flower for their bouquet because it’s a tradition and it fits their budget. The brides that have used silk bouquet have had to use it twice, example, they married in Los Angeles and they will travel to Hong Kong for a second Reception for the relatives that could not make it to L.A.

    So it all depends. How is your budget for flowers, and will have to use them again?

    Zunigasphotoart.com

  19. Lydia says:

    I think there’s nothing wrong with having silk flowers.
    However, I also believed that for our wedding, it was such a special time that it called for real flowers – it was a July wedding, and we used lots of bright happy colors. We thought it was not worth cutting the cost by a few hundred dollars just for that. Fresh flowers are just awesome -

  20. Army wife headed to Hawaii says:

    You could always use some real flowers mixed with the silk ones. Go to a craft store like hobby lobby or Jo Ann’s and look at the silk ones to see if they could pass for real ones. Chances are from a distance no one will know unless they are a completely unnatural color for that flower. Also, I don’t know if you wedding will be indoors or out, but some real flowers will wilt quickly in outdoors weddings and may attract insects if they have a strong sent. Although, my wedding was outside as well as the reception and we didn’t have any problems with real flowers. Personally, I just like to look at the real ones, but if you use silk ones you can keep your bouquet forever! Good luck.

  21. The Future Mrs. DJZ says:

    If you pick the right flowers, silk or real won’t matter. In my opinion, Gerbera Daisies in silk look real. You can search around and you don’t even be able to tell.

  22. M&S says:

    I am using some silk flowers at my decorations, but they are not cheap!!
    http://www.divineweddingdecor.com

  23. Bethany M says:

    Go for the real ones. I went to a wedding a few months ago where they used silk flowers. It was the kind of church with 3 sets of pews and two different aisles. I was sitting on the side of the church farthest from the Bride when she walked down the aisle and I could see across the room they were fake. I know real flowers are more expensive, but they look so much better. I got married last June and go my real flowers for a great price. I was fortunate enough to have a bridesmaid that could do my arrangements for free and I ordered my flowers in bulk from samsclub.com. It’s a once in a lifetime day. Go for what looks best. Good Luck!!!

  24. mrslang1976 says:

    My best friend used silk calla lillies in her wedding and NO ONE could tell that they were not real. They were so life-like that some of the bridesmaids (that didn’t know) were smelling them. It was so funny. I still have mine. They are in a vase on my table. Everyone that comes in smells them and comments on how beautiful they are… and I tell them they are fake! Good luck.

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